Two phrases appear side by side in the chapter on relations and students often mix them up:

They are not different kinds of object. The second phrase is just the special case of the first where the source and target sets are the same. But that small change unlocks several new properties — reflexive, symmetric, transitive — that would make no sense for general relations between two different sets.

The formal definitions

Relation from $A$ to $B$

A relation from A to B is any subset R of the Cartesian product A \times B. Pairs in R have their first coordinate in A and their second coordinate in B. The sets A and B can be completely different — for example, A = students and B = subjects.

Relation on $A$

A relation on A is a relation from A to A — that is, a subset of A \times A. Both coordinates of every pair live in the same set A.

The change is purely semantic. A relation "on A" is the special case B = A of a relation "from A to B." No new axioms are added; the Cartesian product is still the ambient space; pairs are still ordered. The only thing that is different is that pairs now have both coordinates drawn from a single set.

When A = B, new questions become meaningful

When B is a different set from A, asking "is (a, a) \in R?" is usually nonsense — because the second coordinate is supposed to come from B, and a is an element of A, not B. The pair (a, a) might not even be a valid member of A \times B.

Concrete example. Let A = \{Aarav, Isha, Meera\} and B = \{Mathematics, Physics, Chemistry\}, with R being "is enrolled in." A valid pair is (Aarav, Mathematics). The "pair" (Aarav, Aarav) is not in A \times B at all, because Aarav is not a subject. So reflexivity — the property that every element is related to itself — is undefined for this relation. It cannot be true, it cannot be false; the question does not apply.

Now take a relation on a single set. Let A = \{Aarav, Isha, Meera\} and let R be "is a sibling of." A valid pair is (Aarav, Isha), and also (Aarav, Aarav) is a valid candidate pair — it is in A \times A. Now the question "is Aarav a sibling of Aarav?" at least makes sense; you can argue whether someone is their own sibling (usually no), but the pair is an element of the universe A \times A, so it can be in or out of R.

Side-by-side comparison of a relation between two different sets and a relation on one setTwo diagrams. On the left, two ovals labelled A (students) and B (subjects) with arrows from students to subjects showing the enrolled-in relation. On the right, a single oval labelled A (people) with arrows among its own elements showing the sibling relation, including a self-loop. R: "enrolled in" (A to B) A B Aarav Isha Meera Math Physics Chem "Aarav related to Aarav?" — undefined R: "is sibling of" (on A) A Aarav Isha Meera "Aarav related to Aarav?" — meaningful
Left: a relation between students and subjects. Arrows go from one set to a different set, and it is nonsensical to ask whether Aarav is related to himself — the pair (Aarav, Aarav) is not even in $A \times B$. Right: a relation on a single set of people. Arrows stay inside the one oval, and asking about self-loops is now a legitimate question with a definite yes/no answer.

The properties that need B = A

Three key properties only make sense for relations on a single set. Each of them involves comparing two pair-positions that must be drawn from the same underlying set.

For a relation from A to B with A \neq B, all three of these properties are meaningless. You can still talk about domain, range, inverse, and composition — but reflexive / symmetric / transitive are off the table.

Properties that work for any relation

Not every relational concept requires B = A. The following are defined for general relations from A to B.

Concept Definition Needs B = A?
Domain of R First coordinates appearing in R No
Range of R Second coordinates appearing in R No
Inverse R^{-1} \{(b, a) \mid (a, b) \in R\} (a relation from B to A) No
Complement (A \times B) \setminus R No
Cardinality $ R
Function Each a paired with exactly one b No
Reflexive (a, a) \in R for all a Yes
Symmetric (a, b) \in R \Rightarrow (b, a) \in R Yes
Transitive Chain closure Yes
Equivalence relation Reflexive + symmetric + transitive Yes

The bottom four require both coordinates to come from the same set — so they are properties of relations on a set, not of relations from one set to another.

How the phrasing signals what you need to do

On an exam, watch the preposition.

JEE problems are careful with this phrasing. If a problem asks you to check "whether R is reflexive," you know implicitly that R lives on a single set — even if the problem does not spell out B = A.

Bridging the two: a relation from A to B can still be a relation on a bigger set

Sometimes a relation from A to B gets re-interpreted as a relation on A \cup B — the union of both sets. Inside A \cup B, every pair from A \times B is a pair of elements of A \cup B, so the three special properties can now be asked about. But if the relation only contains pairs with first coordinate in A and second coordinate in B, it cannot be reflexive on A \cup B unless A and B overlap — and in most cases it will fail symmetry too.

This re-interpretation is mostly a trick for special problems. The cleaner way is: relations between two different sets are classified by domain/range/inverse behaviour; relations on a single set are classified by reflexive/symmetric/transitive behaviour.

One-line answer

A relation "from A to B" is any subset of A \times B — the two sets can be different. A relation "on A" is the special case B = A. The difference matters because the properties reflexive, symmetric, and transitive are only defined when both coordinates come from the same set.

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